When Christmas Hurts:
Giving Hope to Children in Crisis
The Revd Chris Thomason, Chaplain
Christmas is often portrayed as a season of joy, family togetherness, and celebration. But for many families, this time of year brings anxiety, tension, fear, and deep sadness. Tragically, the Christmas and New Year period is one of the most dangerous times for family and domestic violence.
The Hidden Victims
Children are often the unseen victims in these crises. In Western Australia, one in three reported domestic violence incidents involve children witnessing abuse. A home ruled by fear steals safety and love, and it teaches children that violence is normal. These experiences cast a long shadow, echoing into adulthood and doubling the likelihood of future partner abuse.
Yet, with the right care and support, healing is profoundly possible.
A Path to Peace: Young Hearts
Anglicare WA’s Young Hearts program provides specialised counsellors who walk alongside children who have experienced trauma, helping them feel secure enough to process their experiences, heal, and ultimately break the cycle of violence.
Young Hearts supports children and young people aged 5 to 18 who have been impacted by family and domestic violence. Counselling takes place in a safe, supportive environment, using creative methods such as art, drama, play, dance, and talking.
The program helps children:
- Identify and express feelings about family violence
- Develop and strengthen safe family relationships
- Gain life and social skills that build confidence and resilience
Olivia’s Story*
At just four years old, Olivia had already endured foster care, reunification, and abuse. Today, at ten, she feels safest with her foster family and sister. Through Young Hearts counselling, Olivia discovered her artistic gift, a creative outlet that brought peace to her mind and became a cornerstone of her healing journey.
Confidentiality and Access
Young Hearts is a free service, funded by Telethon, Austal, and generous donors.
Counsellors are bound by an Oath of Confidentiality, which may only be waived if someone’s safety is at risk. Children are assured they can share at their own pace, and group sessions are designed so everyone involved has had similar life experiences.
Young Hearts operates across Western Australia, including Albany, Gosnells, Joondalup, Mandurah, and Rockingham.
To access the service, call 1300 11 44 46. The process begins with a parent or caregiver meeting the counsellor, followed by an appointment for the child.
The Need for Support
If you or someone you know is experiencing family or domestic violence, please call 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732).
This Christmas, you can help a child like Olivia find safety and hope. Donate today at Anglicare WA Christmas Appeal.